Many time when we feel insecure, nerves
and insecurities ruin ourselves , we always come up with the idea of I
hate being me more often than not, we think and believe that someone
or rather, most people are better than us. when in reality, the fact
is, most people are having problems just like us some more some less
its just part of life.
You need to start out small and make a positive approach to something
everyday. Its the small things that real can start you on a positive
pace. Find something you are always positive about and when you feel
depressed go to the positive moment.
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Stop thinking that something is wrong with you, none of us are
perfect, some of us are fat, skinny, short,
tall you get the idea. Isnít it funny? We look at other people, envy
them for looking so outrageously perfect and wish we could trade
places with them, while they look at us and thinks of the same thing.
We suffer from low self esteem, we lack of self confidence and working
on self improvement because we are enveloped in inner desperation.
Stop hating different aspects of yourself and if need be do something
to make a change for the better. Remember small steps turn into big
success with time.
Optimists or people with a positive attitude tend to focus on and plan
for the problem and start to deal with it. They use a positive
attitude and work to turn the negative energy to positive, you can
too. You can grow from the negative experience and learn from the
mistake we all make them its how we deal with it that counts. Bad
stuff happens to everybody its normal so work your way through it and
gain knowledge from it. Losing your temper does nothing to resolve the
Positive attitudes of optimists also predict better reactions during
movement to new situations, sudden tragedies and unlikely turn of
events. If they fall, they will stand up. They see opportunities
instead of problems. It shouldn't always be within the surroundings we
are in, or maybe in the four corners of your own room. The difference
lies within ourselves and how much we want to change for the better.
Although it is impossible to keep ourselves from the negative problems
around us, you can still carry a positive attitude by focusing on the
good things, the positive things in life.
And this positive attitude you now have and keep working on can be of
benefit to other people. Sometimes when other people feel down, the
thing people mostly do is try to give them advice. But sometimes, all
they need is somebody to talk with and you need to be a good listeners
don't interrupt with how you feel but just listen, and listen to them.
If you have a positive attitude you may be able to cheer them up
without even having to say anything. However, if you present yourself
in a positive, upbeat manner to people you come across in life, your
chances of being successful in your endeavors are much greater than if
you constantly complain about things.
After all, who wants to deal
with crybabies? It's one thing, if they're your own kids; it's another
thing if you have to work with them. Their endless whining about
everything drives people crazy. The solution is to avoid them; so
they're not getting the job, or if they slipped into the organization
by accident, they're not getting the promotion unless they're the
Power of a Positive Attitude